"You're Selected!..."

I am sure they are many "attached" personel out there. One of the popular question asked would be "why u choose me of all the others out there?" Different ppl have different criteria for their bf/gf selection process. Like Looks, wealth, 5Cs, character etc... My gf also asked why I chose to be wif her in the 1st place. Looks? partly, I think I do look beyond that, wat really attracted me to her is her personality. It's no secret that I have many female friends who are better looking than her. Looks is only a small portion to me...(see even she had become "better-nutriented" these few years, my love for her never wavered, in fact it has increased). For me I am looking for prospective wife in my gf, I don't blive in those passionate short-termed relationship, don't ask me why it's just not in my genes...Perharps influenced partly by my mum who keep telling me to be serious in relationships since young...
Getting to be wif my present gf over many months then(1999), I found her to be
sentimental(good can complement me, I am too hardfeeling, too stoned haha)
Simple, then all she wanted is a happy family which is also wat I wan,
Loves me,
I can communicate effectively with her,
Faithful(at least it seems to me then)
I think these are the few most important reasons that I think she would be a compatible sprouse to me then.

However, over the years after she started working, I feel she has changed a bit, her thinking have somehow been changed by wat she sees and the person she meet at her workplace. CAll this life experience lah or it's another kind of "Ling Wu". I do not blame her for that lah afterall when u love some1 u have to accept them for wat they are right? However sometimes she does irritate me wif her unreasonableness lah but then ok lah sometimes I am in the wrong too. I am the sort of person who only listen to logics..so I do not look beyond logics sometimes which make me quite inflexible sometimes. For a start, she is now not content just to have a hapi family and have me around to love her. Now she wans more things more material riches to "make up" for things that she didn't managed to enjoyed when she's young. as claimed by her. Mabbe she can try telling this to those ppl who are struggling to make ends meet everyday..mabbe it's due to the fact tat she's earning more $$ now and worklife isn't all that unstressful that she wants to vent her frustration and destress using some luxuries she wans to bestow on herself. It's not wrong lah...This is the single most drastic change in her lor...for me, my thinking is still the same...just a happy complete family is all I ask for, no need car if can't afford(a samll fam car would b nice if can afford), no need lotsa $$(enough to get by wif some savings for rainy days), no need big luxuries house wif maids serving u... I am really trying my very best working towards this goal of mine..that's why I've been actively saving all the $$ I can..I also have alot of things that I wish to buy (eg new gadgets) but I've been curbing my spendings...In her present situation it's hard for her to save $$ even if she wants, but imagine that if I want to buy everything that I want to buy then both of us would have no savings, no savings=no $$=no hse=no car=no marriage
that's why even if I "mei pan fa" I also try my very best to save...and try not to "actively spend" the road ahead is tough I do hope that I can save enough $$ to start my own CY-SL family, one that I can proudly call my own, a happy family wif her..Just don't noe whether she wants to b in it? Nevertheless no matter wat happens I will still work hard towards my goals and hope that the day do come...

P/S:Greed is never-ending it's a vicious cycle, after u get 1 think u wan the 2nd and 3rd etc... I prefer to enjoy wat I have in present rather than keep thinking wat I want after I get my 1st..This is just me,simple mind, not-so-nice-looking=nerdy