Reply to earlier comment by Haz...Hahaha

Hahaha I actually didn't notice that there's a comment on my blog for the blog I've Created on the 3rd of Oct..Although that matter had blown over(as always). But still felt a urge to reply haha...Pls be reminded haz that I am not trying to spark of another round of argument with you here just trying to reply that's all...
first of all I'll like to take u for that fantastic nick' u've given me "Mr Clear Headed" although I sense some scarasm in the wordings but I think I'll just take that as a compliment..haha
Of course I know that my gf's mouse is a super-duper machine gun that can sputter non-stop (and anything can come out from that mouth) when's she's angry. I don't know whether u've seen/heard it before but I do have the pleasure to experience it 1st hand. I guess in that situation U've just hav to stay away from her in case u r gunned down by her. Anyway the reason I've written the blog on this is also precisely the reason. That day she's angry and I can't tell her off immediately else it will just make her madder.So I guess the most effective way is not to keep quiet but to voice out to her when she's more settled(blown over her top), I knew that she'll read my blog that's why I chose to post it here so that at least she can be aware of how I feel. If I don't feedback, relationships can't improve right?
Ok now let's get things straight, I totally agree with ur idea on "GOALS" and getting married at 28(hopefully) and getting a house is just my goal, just a aim. there's no MUST in it cos it's just my personal goal just like getting a car is her goal. If by then I still can't achieve it than so be it. I wun forcefully insist on getting my way I think my gf is well aware of this.And I never really forbid my gf from getting a car.it's just that I feel that there's no need for a car now that's why I advise her against it.I think she misunderstood that as a "forbid". anyway if she insist there's nothing I can do right?
Haha, Yes u r right, having a house need a hell lot of CASH. I've taken that into account,that's why I've been trying to save as much as I can from now in preparation for that day.As I've said earlier buying a hse is only my goal, it gives me the motivation to save $$ else if I dun have that in mind, every now and then whenever I feel like buying some stuffs that I wan, I just go ahead and buy it, wun I be left with less in the end? wun I be drifting further and further away? Frankly speaking I also feel that ir's not really that feasible to be married at 28 in Singapore, I know that too but if I have that goal in mind at least even if I don't achieve it, I shouldn't be too far off right?
Anyway I just told her that that's my goal, I've never really want to force her into it if she don't want. So there's really nothing to talk about "taking and giving" here. If I can't save enough by then then just delay the whole thing, to be u either do it good or u don't do it at all, I think we are not those despos who wan to rush into marriage just because we wan to...haha
Ah Hem, Miss Haz a car is INDEED classified as a WANT, NOT a need I think u can find it in any psychological book. This is especially so in Singapore. I think I don't need to explain the meaning of Wants and Needs to you right? I am sure everyone has a copy of the "little Oxford's Dictionary". or u can find out the meaing from typing "wants and needs" from any internet search engine. Mabbe you would also like to search for "Maslow's Hierachy of Needs" then u will get my pt.
Last but not least I hav to emphasize this again. I don't mean that I MUST have a house, MUST get married etc.. by the age of 28. and I DEFINITELY did not forbid my gf to buy a car only trying to advise her. Mabbe my tone is wrong, but that's entirely my meaning. If we could only get married in our 30s or worse still 40s then so be it as long as when we are old and grey, the walking sticks we have is each other. That's all that matters.
Once last thing, it's also true that every guy want her love to understand them also.