New house=New $$ Woes?

Was quite unhappy today cos of a few incidents

1) dd not wif me at HDB to listen to stuffs which i feel are very important to us, not exactly angry cos of her abscence but more bcos of the reason she is absent.

2) tried to called her many times to explain the situation, n discuss (hey i m no MCP, i discuss) but no1 pick up the phone. Then again was not happy cos i feel she should b quite attentive to the news frm my side.

Finally i made the decision after overcoming a few worries (some yet to overcome)

1) Reason why previous owner abandon flat? huanted? unlucky? - overcame
2) State of flat? - overcame
3) Too big/ex for us? - should n manageable lah

The biggest worry is dd's attitute, cos i m not sure whether this is one of her "3min heat", I see some worrying signs in her:

1)Not knowing her priorities - (1) n (2) frm her choice of choosing to go wake boarding 2)Still wilful n Playful instead of HDB

3) Commitment level - not really sure of her commitment level, cos a flat is BIG investment till now actually i dun see much "commitment"
from her

4) Intolerance - not very open to ideas and flaults of others. eg. i waited an hr
sitting at the kerb at expo so backside ache, went walk
around, kena scolding by her for not picking up her calls. Yah
n i haben even started scolding her for not picking up my calls
at the much more t important time (n bis) tis morning and
making me wait 1hr w/o any info at all, and all this while this
idiot me sit down there thinking that she was packing her
stuffs while she ate wif her boss (don't she every feel guilty?)

Thinking of it now, i can't help but feel that the flat was abit of the rash decision, though if got it would b a good thing. Now hoping dd can tweak her mindset n be more open and willing to accept ideals (not b so defensive, mabbe abit more trustworthy would b good) ...


getting a bit tired liao, slept only 3-4hrs yesterday night, mainly thinking abt what might go wrong... later realise that i shouldn't think tat way, should think of how it might go right