How?

How to love ppl who are unappreciative? who takes advantage of u at every possible chance they have...
tries to push away all kinds of responsibility, and when they are any benefits, they are the 1st to stick their heads out and try to get some... They think that it's only natural for u to help them, and when u refuse, they label u as selfish, but they will give all kinds of excuses and act blur... Just standing around and watch the situation and reap any rewards they can get...

How how? how to love this kind of ppl? or rather how not to hate this type of ppl?