What must I do to make her save?

Everytime dd wants to spend $$, she said that after that she would "settle down" and start to save for pongx4... maybe she doesn't rem it anymore or rather she said all that just to please me... Who knows?

I have been explaining to her countless times that marriage thingy needs alot of $$ and that amt takes time to save, not just day nor weeks..it's Y.E.AR.S... and gg by her progress she will take decades if she wants to try. Somemore she still say she wans this wans that, even worse need more $$. Dunno whether she really didn't see all these or she purposely wants to ignore the whole thing altogether. Maybe she doesn't wan to get married after all. Even if the saved $$ is not gg to be used for pongx4, it's always good to save $$ for a raining day. Dunno how to get this info into her head..no matter wat I do, she just can't save...

Am I wrong to ask her to save? I just dun understand why it's so difficult, when she's earning about $2000 every month...last time when I was earning $540 as attachment in Toshiba, I still managed to save at least $200 every month(though all used up in drv lessons, hehe) ... Must be fair right? so the best way is to contribute dollar to dollar. Meaning if she save $1 then I will contribute $1...tat's the fairest way right? If she dun wan then no pt forcing right? Afterall marriage is 2-person thing...

I think I dun wan to talk about this anymore, think it irrtates me as much as it irritates her. If no $$ then at most dun marry lor. Simple right? like that both of us no need to stress...