Why is it so hard?

I dunno if it's my fault for always wanting to be as fair as possible, perhaps i am too idealistic...
Had a argument with my mum, cos i wanted to change the aging and unsightly shoe cabinet, she tot i am going to foot the bill, actually no problem to do that, finally found one that is cheap and big enough at Vhive. Ok my fault that i never informed rest when i placed an order, cos the staff said only got a few left, furthermore i don't think can find a cheaper/better one. so ok lor, actually i dun mind paying all, but i think it's fairer and better for everyone to just pay a share... no matter how little it is. simple rational: "Would u take care of ur own toilet more than public toilets?". Just wanted them to have more responsibility towards common property. i mean the 4 of us pay lor... i already paid the lion's share since i am the one who KPO and stick my head out. I did brief them but that was a few mths ago.. lately then pick up the search, nobody paid attention to wat i said...

What infuriates and saddens me more is that my mum who is suppose to understand me keep talking about the "U working lah, so shld pay.... ". Working then must be carrot cake for ppl to chop ah??? and keep saying i am stingy heartache... $100 is not a big amount, talk like she is jealous like tat... grrr...

anyway my mum's rational is that no income so no need to pay... but my bothers are not that super hard hard for $$, all i ask is a $10 contribution, hard meh? $5 also can... overboard meh? sometimes dunno what she thinking... when it comes to $$, everyone just guard their purses and let others go be the idiot....

NOBODY WANTS TO BE AN IDIOT INCLUDING ME!