True Love = Possess?

Sometimes i wonder what is true love? To Love is to possess? even if it meant giving ur partner a bad name for him/her? Or let him/her endure hardships just to be with u?

Mabbe these scenes happen in the most dramatic period drama, because of love, one can forgo everything... bu back to the real world is this the case?

Different people will have their own different definition... take for example, one always say "i love u, i love u and i can do anything for u" but to be with him/her, the other party will have to be termed "unfaithful" and be the scorn of the whole family. Is this the perfect ending for Love? u gain the so call "true love" of ur partner but loses the love and respect of the family, friends and society. Is this what is the so called "true love"?

To me I always believe that true love is not only possessing. some people may disagree with me because they feel that only by being with them can their partner enjoy true happiness. Of cos this is the best outcome, if they can maintain their loving relationship and with the blessing of everyone. However what will u do when u realised that just by being with u, there will be a lot of resistance and will give your partner a bad reputation? There is of cos talk that u are just going after what u wan, but is this love? A single wrong move can make ur partner ostracised by his/her family forever. People dun remember all the merits u did, but if u have 1 flault they will remember it for eternity.

Love can be easy yet complicated, if u truely love someone (i feel), u will not only want to possess him/her but rather do what's the best for them. even if it means suppressing ur feelings and not being with them. People who go all the way without any logical thinking are just selfish and irresponsible people, these people i feel don't even know how to love and dun deserved to be loved, much less talk about "True Love". Their "true love" is only possession and not do what's best for their love one.

Carpenters - Yesterday Once More

When I was young
I'd listen to the radio
Waitin' for my favorite songs
When they played I'd sing along
It made me smile.

Those were such happy times
And not so long ago
How I wondered where they'd gone
But they're back again
Just like a long lost friend
All the songs I loved so well.

Every Sha-la-la-la
Every Wo-o-wo-o
Still shines
Every shing-a-ling-a-ling
That they're startin' to sing's
So fine.

When they get to the part
Where he's breakin' her heart
It can really make me cry
Just like before
It's yesterday once more.

Lookin' back on how it was
In years gone by
And the good times that I had
Makes today seem rather sad
So much has changed.

It was songs of love that
I would sing to then
And I'd memorize each word
Those old melodies
Still sound so good to me
As they melt the years away.

Every Sha-la-la-la
Every Wo-o-wo-o
Still shines
Every shing-a-ling-a-ling
That they're startin' to sing's
So fine.

All my best memories
Come back clearly to me
Some can even make me cry.

Just like before
It's yesterday once more.

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Finally found my legendary Tom Yum Noodles... wonder if the mussles are still inside...

Labrador Park Revisited

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Long time nv Post

Long time never post anything cos never went anywhere interesting... haiz... been super busy these weeks...

Nothing to do so decided to take a "record" of my medals in print in case they deteriote further... As least this is a testament to my old glory days haha.. now old liao haiz.. there should have been more but some of them the condition are so bad that i discarded them long ago... These are all that's left

Realised the the "rice wine" i bought from Korea is still untouched today went to open it.. so it contains herbs le, so it's a tonic wine... wah the name also very nice "100 year old Wine) hehe

I'd Like To Teach the World To Sing

Heard this song sung by some Kindergarden kids on my way to work... Feel so refreshing, like i am back to childhood days, no worries... haha



I'd like to build the world a home
And furnish it with love
Grow apple trees and honey bees and snow-white turtle doves

I'd like to teach the world to sing
In perfect harmony
I'd like to hold it in my arms and keep it company
I'd like to see the world for once
All standing hand in hand
And hear them echo through the hills "Ah, peace throughout the land"

(That's the song I hear)
I'd like to teach the world to sing (that the world sings today)
In perfect harmony

I'd like to teach the world to sing
In perfect harmony

Id like to build the world a home
And furnish it with love
Grow apple trees and honey bees and snow-white turtle doves