Empty Promises...

today dd told me she will be going HK wif her friend... Yah nothing really special abt it, just a trip and she ask "whether she can go or not after she have booked the trip, funny hor? the way she ask...she might as well put it across this way.."dd I am going to HK"

Tot this hol can go hol wif dd, ya a short trip, cos she keep saying she wan to go overseas but then me being a student is quite poor plus the previous driving adventure have already make me quite poor so too bad if wan to go overseas can only go short trips. Then was quite excited cos of all the 25yrs I have been on this planet, I have yet taken a plane. Poor me. Somemore she say "OK" to go Thailand this hol, mabbe she forgot that she promise me ya and somemore boasted that she will pay 1/2 of my expenses. Oh well, think I will stay in Singapore this hol, and goodbye to my aeroplane seat.

Dunno she realised it or not, but to me she seems to keep making empty promises to me, so when she told me that she gg HK, it doesn't surprise me not upset me. I mean I'm quite used to it already...think next time will call her the "Empty Promise Queen" haha example of empty promises she made so she cannot say I wrongly accuse her.

1)Promise after get dog then dun get car until after pongx4- after get dog, then think of car
already, get small OPC car then think of normal bigger car, never think of pongx4

2)Promises to save for $$ after buy car and dun think of other things - think halfway thru' cos
of "pressure", give up liao... Got abit $$ then think of how to spend it(aiyoh like that how to
save?).

3)Promise to put $$ together as saving for pongx4 fund in c'mon account.- for dunno watever
reason never realise it.

4)Promise to go short trip tis hol, of cos now is cannot lah

5)Say wan to go Korea after I grad next year in May, Since she gg HK on Jan where she gg to
find $$ to go Korea in May? she still got XXX bills to pay. Guess this is also OFF liao

Sighz sometimes I really dunno wat women wans, one moment they can say they too young to settle down, the next moment they complain that they waited too long already wan to runaway when the guy is trying to save $$ like mad(mabbe they should swap position and see), the irony is that when she complain she waited too long, she never do anything abt it other than spend $$ which to any normal logical person would make the wait longer. Sometimes when u think of it, one person saving like mad while the other seems to be interested in spending only make the saving person look so stupid like idiot like that.. like water go in from 1 end of a open-ended tube and exiting from the other taking forever to fill the tube.

The guy can also go wherever he wan but in the process will use up watever meagre savings he have accumulated over the years and will make the wait for the gal even longer. If both also have same idealogy, keep wanting to have fun and dun save, I think these 2 persons forever can kiss the pongx4 thingy bye bye... Perharps tis is the difference between the 2 sexes, the guy is usually the more rational one, look at big picture while ladies being more emotional and thus more illogical will only look at short term gains....

If 2 person are gg to be together then I think they should share woe and weal tat's the whole meaning of the marriage vows...if can only b 2gether in good times then I think they will be better off by themselves.

Right now got alot of obstacles to saving
1)Father keep saying wan to retire then we have to support the family(ya even b4 I grad and find job already nagging liao)
2)escalating cost of everything
3)single saving
4)unsympathetic family(includes sprouse side)

mabbe pongx4 thing will only remain a dream for me...

***sighZ sighZ sighZ***